Loneliness after a divorce is one of the toughest things to deal with — you could be left with a lot of leisure time and are struggling to fill the yawning gap.

Hobbies and social gatherings are great ways to meet people and do something fun, but if you need more than just a cursory few hours with others once or twice a week, a dog could be the most wonderful thing you could have.

If you have kids, a pup could cheer up the household, especially after such a rough emotional phase.

It could also bring your family together — you could go on walks and bond over dog-related chores or activities, like dog training classes or same-breed dog clubs.

Dogs are fantastic friends to have, but they need a lot of attention, unlike cats that are more independent creatures.

Picking up after them, walking them, giving loads of affection and attention are part and parcel in having a healthy, happy dog.

Some may view this as hard work and responsibility, but you could see it taking away the focus on your heartbreak and sorrows from yourself to channel positive energy into another important figure in your life — your canine companion.

As a newly single divorcee, you may be pleased to know that keeping a dog has a very social dimension, even if you’re not actively looking to date.

If you’re not one to join a dog club or a class, just walking your pooch every day to the same park could help you befriend other dog owners and breaking the ice should be a breeze as you already have one common topic.

Another perk in having a dog is that they don’t talk back nor are they judgmental and this could be refreshing and soothing after a rocky period in your life while you work on building up your tattered self-esteem. They’ll force you to get out of the house and keep fit.

However, their uncompromising neediness as a pet is something serious to consider. Here are some questions to ask before getting a puppy: Would you prefer a big or small dog? Does your work schedule allow for frequent walks? Who will care for it when you are away? Can you afford a pet hotel if you can’t find anyone?

Like all adventures, don’t expect too much and just enjoy the fun, love, and loyalty of a dog — you’ll often be surprised at how fulfilling and rewarding it is.

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